“Your EXTERNAL definitions of me do not reflect My INNER truth” – Chantai Finesse


A Dash of Finesse is more than my take on the world. It’s recognizing the pause that women all over take when questioning whether they’re more than the opinions and expectations that are placed on them without people really getting to know what’s taking place within them on a personal level.

12 “Not that I have already attained, or am already perfected; but I press on, that I may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of me. 13 Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, 14 I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus” – Philippians 3:12-14 NKJV (Pressing Toward the Goal)

With four children, a husband, a full time job and a very busy lifestyle, I’m still left feeling yet to tap into my fullest potential and so every day I wake up asking God to reveal His purpose in me through which He shows me every day more I can do, more I can speak and more I can write with the intention of uplifting others.

A Dash of Finesse is just that – I utilize my own life experiences, along with conversations, ideas and discoveries I’ve made with the amazing every day people who surround me in order to make sense of everything happening around me.

Life is a constant juggling act as we all try to balance it all, and nobody said it would be easy! It takes a community of love, support and strength to draw upon in each season of life to remain steadfast in the calling we have been purposed for and I hope that’s what you find on this site.

All I desire is to make people think… in order to realize that more is waiting if you dare to believe! –

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